Posted by : Emog in (Family and Romance)

Another tale of Love

It was a busy morning, about 8:30 am, when an elderly
gentleman in his 80s arrived to have stitches removed from his
thumb. He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at
9:00am. I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it
would be over an hour before someone would be able to see
him.

I saw him looking at his watch and decided since I was
not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound. On
examining it I saw it was well healed, so I talked to one of the
doctors and got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and
redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him
if he had another doctor’s appointment this morning, as he was
in such a hurry.

The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing
home to eat breakfast with his wife. I inquired as to her health.
He told me that she had been there for a while! As she is a victim
of Alzheimer’s disease. As we talked, I asked if she would be
upset if he was a bit late. He replied that she no longer knew who
he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now. I was
surprised and asked him, ‘And you still go every morning, even
though she doesn’t know who you are?’ He smiled as he patted
my hand and said, ‘She doesn’t know me but I still know who she is.’

I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm
and thought, ‘That is the kind of love I want in my life. True love is
neither physical nor romantic’. True love is an acceptance of all that
is, has been, will be, and will not be. Peace is seeing a sunset and
knowing who to thank. The happiest people don’t necessarily have
the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
I hope you share this with someone you care about cos I just did.

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